Wednesday, February 07, 2007

What happened to that sweetness???

I was fed up. I had had it. There is no reason it should take a child about 1 hour to clean his toys. How does he manage (with help from another) to destroy his room in such a short time? How does he walk, for I cannot even see the floor! After continually telling him to clean up and realizing my fuse is getting shorter and shorter I grabbed a garbage bag. Now mind you, this is a DAILY occurrence- not just a one time thing. This seems to happen every single day. The toys abound yet I have no idea where to begin as far as getting rid of them. Well, today since it was not appearing any cleaner I cleaned up by throwing whatever was on the floor in a garbage bag. The boys started wailing. The toys are in the garage. Once I am shown that they can clean up I will return their toys. In the meantime I have got to get rid of some of them so we're not all so overwhelmed.

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I am looking into what I want to do for school next year. Mainly I'm looking into some history and science that I can do with various ages (7-3 yr olds). So, what do you just love and recommend? Thanks to
Teena I will probably use A Child's Geography. It looks like something my children would all enjoy. Speaking of history and science, you can go to Tapestry of Grace and sign up to receive a FREE 3 week study on Egypt. I just got mine in the mail yesterday! I'm still undecided on whether to switch to Math-U-See. I need to get my hands on it and check it out in person. Luckily there is at least one person I know in my area that uses it so I'm sure that won't be a problem.

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Yesterday we went out to lunch with Zach (only to Taco Bell). Well, the town we were in and that area aren't exactly the nicest. To think they offered us a base house there- you just drive down that road and shiver. It's not like inner cities, but its just nasty. Anyway, I'm sitting there and in walks a homeless man (or so I'm assuming). He had just come in to use the restroom and left. We were just finishing up our food and I see another man walking toward the door. He is carrying two grocery bags and I can see canned food in them. He's also got this brand new Ralph Lauren backpack. He walks in and immediately looks in the garbage can. I sit there puzzled, wondering what he is doing! Then he takes out an empty cup- that has been used as it was in the garbage- and goes into the bathroom. Out he comes and you can tell the cup had been rinsed. He goes to the drink machine fills up and leaves. I was floored! Zach did not believe me that the guy had been digging in the garbage as his back was to him! I just did not even know what to do! It just seemed so wrong to me, like he was stealing, even though it was a drink! I am so thankful that in our neighborhood we do not have people of that nature walking around. We do have the man on the bike that you see all over our town. He has this huge stuffed dog on the front of his bike and a long beard. He wears the oddest clothes. Sometimes we see him at the library. Sometimes it is hard for me to feel bad for these homeless people. Often we'll see people by Wal-Mart with signs that read that they've broke down and need money. Well, where is their car? I just don't understand. I know there are programs and shelters everywhere to help these people. I know we as Christians are to give to those in need, but where do we draw the line? I don't know, just some thoughts...


8 comments:

Becca said...

How funny....I was just contemplating a post on my own blog about toys everywhere. Yesterday I had an issue with Shannon dumping out a huge bin of play food and leaving it there. I gave her several opportunities to clean it up, even helped her but she flat out refused to do a thing. I was so mad...but I was reading online and found some very good advice. You might too!

Also, just a thought on homeless people...there are many of them in Chicago, begging by the trains stations etc. I used to pass many of them on my way to catch the train after work and lots of them have mental problems, schizophrenia and the like so it is difficult for them to help themselves...I guess I just feel pity for these people...what horrible, lonely lives they must lead without anyone to care about them.

Whew...this looks like a blog right here on your comment page! I'll stop now. =)

Anonymous said...

I have the exact same toy problem. M is really good about picking up but A is terrible. I've noticed though that the more that's out the harder time she has to pick up. She says she didn't do it, she's too tired or just outright no. I have been to the point of the trash bag, just haven't done it yet. I feel I would be punishing M too. She agreed the other day though, that they have too much toys. Yeah!! Now to get her to help me get rid of some. A really needs some guidance too. Ugh, always an issue. Best of luck.

Shari

Anonymous said...

I rmember the stuffed dog guy. We used to see him at the library all the time, but after katrina, not so much. I thought something bad had happened to him.
We lived in West Falcon Housing and it was in the most awful area.
I hope all is going well for you all.
God bless,
Loriann

Anna said...

My dear Hannah and Gabe are excellent cleaner uppers, BUT little miss Natalie is a walking tornado there is not a day that goes by that she does not destroy her room. Sometimes I will leave the mess thinking it is good therapy for me, but it's not I end up thinking about it at night. The only way I can get her to clean her room is by instructing her item by item where to put it, if she agrees to do it of course! It's not very much longer that I can say "she is only 3"!

Choppzs said...

I have done the garbage bag thing many times!! lol Now since Girly is bigger, she pretty much gave her toys away herself! So now it's just getting Crazy to pick up his stuff, but he's not to bad about it!!

I hear you on the homeless people thing. I do feel sorry for most of the ones I see. I know here, in our town, it is actually against the law to hand out money to the homeless. So instead of doing things of that nature, I have given several clothing donations to the local homeless shelter. That doesn't make me feel like such a skin flint or whatnot for not giving them money handouts!

Jodie said...
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Jodie said...

I need to do the garbage bag thing with my kids intstead of screaming and yelling at them while I pick up their toys.

Homeless people all make me feel bad, especially if they really are in dire straights. That's the worst part, you never know their background. I guess the best thing to do is to judge not lest you be judged and treat others the way you would want to be treated etc etc.

momanna98 said...

I have done that many times with the toys before. MANY TIMES.
I understand where you are coming from as far as the homeless. When I was 20 and pregnant without the father, I went to get medicade (illionis insurance) and i got to see all the other people applying for free stuff like link cards which I did not qualify for. Me, 20 and pregnant, but these other people who have fur coats, cell phones (8 years ago), car alarms... so frustrating!!! You know they are lying to get free stuff.